Tuesday, June 19, 2007

19 June 2007, Tuesday

Call me Queen Xueyu


You are a Queen!
Beautiful, Wise, Strong
Righteous, Commanding, Humble


You are the beautiful and compassionate Queen. You are the epitomy of what every woman should be. You are confident, bold, aggressive, smart, womanly and feminine. You know the right thing to do and do it. You command respect and earn praise. You are moral and loving. In times of trouble, you draw strength from within, and are a source of strength for others.

Which Royalty Are You?

Surprise!!

Haha...I'm still in Singapore lah. My trip was delayed by a week. According to my manager, I have things to deal with in Singapore, therefore unable to go AND I've cold sore. She's afraid I go there and contract some disease back. But I'm confirmed leaving this Sunday at 0815hrs. I'll be back on 07/07, Sat flight. Wana come pick me up? LoL. Will reach SG about 5+pm ba. By the time I come out from shopping at DFS, maybe I'll be out like at 6+pm. Kekeke...anyway, see you guys around when I come back okies?

What is love?
I told Wenjie kor that I'm envy of those couples who don't quarrel and are like in a blissful relationship/marriage. He told me that all couples quarrel. So that sparked me to ask about his "other half". Wenjie is my secondary school friend. School mate. But he's someone I respected alot. Someone I listened to. Think the last time I saw him was in 1999, when we went back school to visit some of our juniors. Well, here goes our conversation. Hope all of you learn something.

雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
it's kind of contradicting de right
crazynut says:
in fact.....she's the oni one i can live with...and also i cannot live without
crazynut says:
i can depend on her
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
what makes u attract to her
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
teach me to be a better gf...
crazynut says:
she din do anything
crazynut says:
i'm just attracted to her
crazynut says:
when she's nice...i love her....when she's nt nice...i also love her
crazynut says:
actually u dont have to do anything...just love him for who he is
crazynut says:
when u can love him for who he is....u will automatically do things tat will make him love u
crazynut says:
sometimes quarreling is a way of loving him...u quarrel with him..cos u care abt him
crazynut says:
ppl are creatures full of emotions...there are bound to have anger, jealous, care and love
crazynut says:
u wun show ur anger infront of someone u dun care..rite?
crazynut says:
it’s how u handle things after quarrel...tat makes the difference
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
profound
crazynut says:
haha
crazynut says:
it’s not la
crazynut says:
just be natural with urself
crazynut says:
when u have to show it..show it...
crazynut says:
dun keep it inside u
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
wise words spoken from a wise man
crazynut says:
i'm not wise la..haha..just happen to realise things..i din realised in the past
crazynut says:
in a r/s....the most impt thing is communication
crazynut says:
even when u are not talking...ur facial expressions....ur body language is still communicating with ur bf
crazynut says:
u can have a r/s tat will last a lifetime...
crazynut says:
but u will need a lot of efforts
crazynut says:
i know u can do it
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i wana marry this guy
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he med to be afraid of committing...
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
maybe cause we quarrel too often
crazynut says:
y do u want to marry him?
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he's stable
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i know i can depend on him
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he's sort of family orientated
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he's nice to my folks...as well as his
crazynut says:
tat's sweet
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he got filial piety...
crazynut says:
do u know wat he want?
crazynut says:
do u understand him??..do u think he understand and know wat u want?
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he dun understand and know what i want
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i understand him but dun wish to give in
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
haha
crazynut says:
wait till he really understand and know wat u want...
crazynut says:
then think of marriage
crazynut says:
meantime...communicate with him
crazynut says:
find out if he’s realli scared to commit
crazynut says:
maybe he want to commit....but something is bothering him
crazynut says:
find out from him
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
he told me he's afraid of the frequent quarrels
crazynut says:
well...then start to resolve tat problem
crazynut says:
y do the both of u always quarrel
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i have no idea.
crazynut says:
u dun have to tell me..the content...
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
maybe cause i see something i dun like...i start to complain
crazynut says:
but i need u to think...wat went wrong?
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
me complaining abt the things i dun like abt him ba
crazynut says:
ok...maybe complaining is something he dun like
crazynut says:
is there another way to telling him tat?
crazynut says:
other than complaining?
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i duno wor
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
lol
crazynut says:
can u tell him
crazynut says:
but not complain?
crazynut says:
tell him in a nice way
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
hard to curb the temper wor
crazynut says:
when u complain to a guy abt his bad pts.....he will get defensive...and wun listen to u
crazynut says:
it's the same for me
crazynut says:
i understand temper is hard to control....it's normal
crazynut says:
but tok to him after when things cool down...
crazynut says:
explain to him y u lose ur temper
crazynut says:
if he love u...he will listen and understand
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
thanks...
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i guess i did learn something from u after all these years
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
i'm still learning frm u
crazynut says:
we are learning from each other
雪语 : Counting down to doom [6] days says:
no wonder u were someone whom i respected
crazynut says:
hmm...i think u think too highly abt me already
crazynut says:
haha
crazynut says:
but i will take tat as a compliment
crazynut says:
thx
crazynut says:
learn to see things from different views
crazynut says:
u will see a lot
crazynut says:
sometimes a person may seem bad on the surface...
crazynut says:
but if u see him from another view...maybe he's not tat bad
crazynut says:
there's a reason for everything
crazynut says:
just tat..not everyone get to see tat reason

Wise words hor? This coming from a 25 year old guy. Someone whose relationship experience is lesser than me. So who is to say that those without experience can't give good advice? Love you kor!

Feng, do you feel as he feels? When I'm nice, you love me? When I'm not nice you still love me? I guess the answer should be a yes, else you won't be still together with me! Haha. *Hugz* I'm trying and learning ok? Just give me time. Let's change together okies? Kekeke...

Feel so insulted
A customer of mine Skype-d me this morning. And left me damn pissed off. But I tried to keep my cool. ARGH! Irritating man. Don't like him. I feel as though he had slapped me and set Singapore to flames. He's ignorant and stupid. *Bish bash* Wana kick him to somewhere else...make him live in SG and see that SG is actually a very nice place to live!
[10:02:48 AM] MING says: 早.端午节快乐!!
[10:02:58 AM] MING says: 在新加坡会有这个节日吗?
[10:03:33 AM] Isabelle Bang says: yepz
[10:03:36 AM] Isabelle Bang says: there are chinese here also
[10:03:54 AM] Isabelle Bang says: singapore 75% of the population are chinese
[10:04:15 AM] MING says: 原来如此.
[10:04:37 AM] MING says: 你是新加坡人吧.
[10:04:50 AM] Isabelle Bang says: ya
[10:04:53 AM] MING says: 还是中国人好啊!!!
[10:05:02 AM] Isabelle Bang says: lol
[10:05:05 AM] Isabelle Bang says: to each his own ba
[10:05:07 AM] MING says: 热情.
[10:05:14 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i like my country just like u like yours
[10:05:29 AM] MING says: 那你还不了解中国.
[10:05:44 AM] Isabelle Bang says: haha
[10:05:46 AM] MING says: 我觉得中国是最好的国家.人很善良.
[10:05:49 AM] Isabelle Bang says: u've never been to singapore then
[10:06:14 AM] MING says: 你什么时候会来中国,深圳.欢迎你!
[10:06:23 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i'm coming on 06/24
[10:06:26 AM] Isabelle Bang says: to dongguan
[10:06:44 AM] MING says: 东莞那边的治安不太好,对吗?
[10:06:54 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i'm not so sure
[10:07:09 AM] Isabelle Bang says: to me, anywhere other than singapore, the crime rates are high
[10:07:32 AM] MING says: 那你什么时候还会再来呢?过来,我请你吃饭.做你最好的导游.
[10:07:53 AM] Isabelle Bang says: haha
[10:07:55 AM] Isabelle Bang says: it's ok..
[10:08:04 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i've been to china quite alot of times before
[10:08:22 AM] MING says: 放心,我不会让你失望.我会代表中国人,告诉新加坡的朋友,原来中国人如此热情.
[10:08:51 AM] Isabelle Bang says: haha
[10:08:53 AM] Isabelle Bang says: thanks!
[10:09:21 AM] MING says: 我没有跟你开玩笑.我是认真的.很有诚意的.
[10:09:31 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i'm also serious..
[10:09:54 AM] MING says: 那就这么说定了.你什么时候会来中国?
[10:10:01 AM] Isabelle Bang says: no no...
[10:10:06 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i appreciate your kindness
[10:10:18 AM] Isabelle Bang says: but i don't think i'll be going to china except for work purposes
[10:10:19 AM] MING says: 看来你还是在误解我.
[10:10:36 AM] Isabelle Bang says: err seriously
[10:10:37 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i'm not
[10:10:50 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i believe most china people are warm and kind
[10:10:55 AM] MING says: 对的.
[10:11:00 AM] Isabelle Bang says: some of my classmates in school are from china also
[10:11:03 AM] MING says: 我认同这一点.
[10:11:20 AM] MING says: 新加坡的总理,就是中国人.
[10:11:44 AM] MING says: 全世界的中国人当中,新加坡的中国人是最历害的.
[10:13:47 AM] Isabelle Bang says: haha
[10:14:01 AM] Isabelle Bang says: u mean lee hsien long?
[10:14:15 AM] MING says: 对的,
[10:14:19 AM] Isabelle Bang says: or u meant his father, lee kwan yew?
[10:14:24 AM] MING says: 对.
[10:14:32 AM] MING says: 你真聪明.
[10:14:50 AM] MING says: 记得要来中国,然后给电话我.行吗?
[10:14:54 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i'm a singaporean...i'm brought up to love lee kwan yew and my country
[10:14:58 AM] Isabelle Bang says: okies no prob
[10:15:47 AM] MING says: 记得要来中国,然后给电话我.行吗?
[10:17:06 AM] MING says: 对了,能否将你的相片发一张给我?
[10:19:32 AM] Isabelle Bang says: huh i don't have picture
[10:19:56 AM] MING says: 不是吧.小气.新加坡人不会像你这样小气的.
[10:25:43 AM] Isabelle Bang says: haha
[10:25:48 AM] Isabelle Bang says: there are many kinds of people around ma
[10:25:57 AM] Isabelle Bang says: and seriously i do not have a picture of myself
[10:26:11 AM] MING says: 不是吧.
[10:26:22 AM] Isabelle Bang says: yupz
[10:26:51 AM] MING says: 小气.不给算了.
[10:27:29 AM] Isabelle Bang says: :)
[10:27:58 AM] MING says: 你不像新加坡人.
[10:29:42 AM] Isabelle Bang says: i am born and bred in sg
[10:29:54 AM] Isabelle Bang says: u have to come to sg to experience what sg people are like
[10:31:16 AM] MING says: 国外的女孩子都很爽快的.
[10:31:24 AM] MING says: 但现在你一点也不爽快.
[10:31:39 AM] Isabelle Bang says: this is not work related
[10:31:43 AM] MING says: 朋友向你要张相片,你都不给.小气.
[10:31:54 AM] Isabelle Bang says: it's ok
[10:32:03 AM] MING says: 我明白.这跟工作无关.但是我们也可以做朋友啊.对不?
[10:32:19 AM] Isabelle Bang says: thanks
[10:32:19 AM] Isabelle Bang says: not during office hours
[10:32:49 AM] MING says: 朋友向你要张照片,你都不给.小气.

I ended the conversation. By not replying him anymore. Boh liao. Sounds so desperate lor. Crazy. Think I shui shui bian bian anyhow give my pictures out ah. Wait you put voodoo or whammy on me how? Siao. I'm not stupid. And you're just my customer, if it's not work related, I don't think I need to comply to your requests. I'm a human too ok! DAMN U!

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