Oh screw that. You said it, we want sex, and women want a whole long list of stuff. Plus we have to pay for everything. It's one-sided all right. The option of engaging a hooker in a win-win situation is very attractive. She gets paid, I get sex. No drama. I mean, what are the girls of today plan to offer in exchange for all that massaging, "affection", care, money, remembering birthdays, celebrating V-Day (it's a freakin expensive hassle, but we do it just to get sex. Hah.)?
Seriously, if this was coming from my boyfriend's mouth, I would have slapped him hard across where it hurts most: his
As for the paying...I CAN JOLLY PAY FOR WHATEVER DATES WE'RE ON. If you just admit that you're broke and all, I will pay myself. In fact, my boyfriend had only paid for the food and movies for the past 2 years+ we were together. Whenever I go shopping, I made it a point to pay for myself. I mean, the clothes and shoes and bags will be ON me, and not him. Why should he pay? As for food, sometimes I'll treat as well. If you just wana be "man" and pay for everything, DON'T COMPLAIN. It's not as if we won't pay if you ask nicely. @#$%
It's either this guy is sexually deprived or he had never been in a relationship with someone he loves. I mean, ya, my boyfriend pays for most of everything when we go out, but then in exchange for his love, respect and affection, I give it back. It's a two way traffic. And what about the number of times we females cook for you guys? All 27 years of my mom's married life, she has been cooking for 25 years. No joke. My father preferred my mom's cooking to outside food. What about that? So in exchange for all the food and support, my dad gives sex? This is ridiculous!!! He gave my mom the attention and love that she needs!
Love is not a business. Sometimes one party will give more than the other party, or sometimes only one is giving. But it's not an exchange for sex. If you treat your partner nice, shower her with gifts or whatever, just to have sex, you are a bastard, an animal. Heck, even a dog would be better than you. At least even when you're in a bad mood, the dog will console you. And in return, all the dog needs is a pat. Sheesh. I'm just so...appalled by what MCPYouKnowMe had written. Or had I read his message wrongly? Whatever.